This life is so temporary... All the things...

My man is who he is. After my last message, which was a beautiful text, he replied "cool story".
The whole situation is showing me how I am still there available for breadcrumbs whilst I give myself my fullness. I'm taking notes with my eyes open, despite I close them at moments and swim in the enchanting ocean of romance. He's not it, he cannot share with me...

Good thing to is I have managed to get myself together, get more grounded and see things more clearly.
This video helped.
I'm sorry if you cannot open it, it's from Instagram..
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H1raeth · 36-40, M

Oh he's just trying to be the 'real man' women SAID they wanted. Give him some headroom.

Boeing · 36-40

@H1raeth how do you mean to give him some headroom?..

H1raeth · 36-40, M

@Boeing Sorry, I mean like; give the man a few chances... Unless you really feel strongly. Does that make sense?

Boeing · 36-40

@H1raeth thank you, I think I am giving him chances but he's not there. He wrote to me clearly that he doesn't wish to engage romantically with me now or in the future, for his own sanity he said. I trigger things in him and it's not working you know.
I understand relationships are challenging but he's not even willing and acting with a slightly aggressive approach.. I don't know why I am even there.

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Boeing · 36-40

@H1raeth.. there're couple of continents in between us lol
Thanks for the advice though.
And what's numpty?

H1raeth · 36-40, M

@Boeing A numpty is a silly person. It's a Gypsy word I think lol. [UPDATE] It is not. It's a Scottish word.

Ah right. Sorry to speak like I know the whole story.

Boeing · 36-40

@H1raeth oh no, I hear you, I don't think there's anything wrong with what you say, on the contrary.

H1raeth · 36-40, M

@Boeing I want to be as helpful as a random man can be 😎
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So this guy doesn't get you sometimes....Are there people in your past that did a better job at that?

I feel like he doesn't want to level with you and that sucks. You have this amazing mind and it would be criminal for you to settle for anything less.

Boeing · 36-40

@H1raeth Yes...he does rise to meet me but then he isn't. He does understands me and talks with me but then he doesn't. It's that hot cold type of scenario that can keep one hooked up until some point though, especially not working so well with adults ... to his defense, he's 5 years younger. He's trying 🤭

No. I am making fun but it is a no- this is not how trying looks like.
This is what experimenting looks like, go and see, looks like,
as if he's visiting the zoo and I'm some exotic animal - fun but only for as long ....aya

H1raeth · 36-40, M

@Boeing I just don't like that you sent him something heartfelt and he replied with "cool story"
but like I originally said, it may be a strategy. Just be sure before you make any decisions.

Boeing · 36-40

@H1raeth yes thank you for being considerate 🙏🏻