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TimiD · 41-45, M
Public acknowledgment can feel reassuring, but privacy doesn’t mean lack of commitment. Some people simply prefer keeping their relationship away from social media, while other's like public gesture. Both can actually coexist in a genuine relationship. Moreso, social media isn’t the real measure of a relationship. What matters is how someone treats you in real life.
@TimiD This post was about relationship status on social media. We're all just discussing that setting. I do believe you're correct after reviewing our messages - you seem to be possibly unaware of the setting. That's all I (we) were ever referencing.. the setting of relationship status.
TimiD · 41-45, M
@Magicianzini Thanks for clarifying 🙂.


I see we’re discussing the social media setting itself 🙂. My take is that not broadcasting a relationship doesn’t automatically mean it’s hidden.
People often choose privacy or safety over online display, and ultimately, the true measure of commitment is how partners treat each other in real life-not a status or a post.
@TimiD No bruh.. when people don't set that status, it means they're hiding the fact they're committed. It's so they can cheat. This is part of how people treat each other IRL. I realize you're older and things may have worked differently back then. But online and IRL are interrelated, and not specifying your status on social media is like taking your wedding ring off before you leave the house.

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
My dude doesn't use social media. But he doesn't introduce me to his friends or family. We've been together for 5 years. We don't go on dates. He'd never propose.

I think of us more as friends with benefits who have to live together because it's too hard financially to live alone. 🤷🏻‍♀
I’m not on the market, partner-seeking-wise.

If I were, I would not want a man to whom altering his social media relationship status was important.
There are some good reasons why a guy might be reluctant to feed Meta's data mining machine. My wife wasn't going to add our marriage on Facebook, but when I did, she felishr didn't have much choice
VladG94 · 31-35, M
If any woman tries to complain that I'm not putting them in their relationship status on social media nor propose to them at all, then they will be blocked from me and have their comments removed from there to be honest!!!!
VladG94 · 31-35, M
@Troubledchick99 I'm not even saying it to be funny, this is actually how it's done with me to be honest.... I think it's incredibly dumb to promote your own relationship statuses that way to be honest!!!!
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
If I have a girlfriend, I wouldn't post on social media. That seems kind of dangerous and stupid at the same time.

I keep it personal for peace only.
GoFish ·
probably not
BrandonWyatt36 · 36-40, M
None of the women I have ever been with have ever stuck around long enough to give me a chance LOL their loss
Northwest · M
That would get in the way of his other dalliances.
pdockal · 56-60, M
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
I think that stuff is silly tbh
What if the wife asked him not to be he wants to

 
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