She needs to get tested for HIV. There have been spouses infected and died after their boyfriends or husbands got out of prison .

She should leave him..... If he can't change for her after she waited for him for 12 years... He is not worthy and she struggled for him and he won't talk about it then she should leave....

Move on he's obviously not the same person he was when he went in. He's damaged institutionalized. There is no future with him. As long as she's with him she wont be happy

Learn to enjoy it as much as he does perhaps. Maybe she needs to peg him now as well. Prison really does change a man.

Definitely leave
Get him out of her place

put a lock on the back door.

This is a joke, right?

Answers on the wall..LEAVE

Slap a sign on it that says “Exit Only.”

Hmmmm. The problem is that he only gets off anally, and not that he was in prison for 12 years?