I’ve always been afraid of intimacy

I’ve always been pretty afraid and awkward about doing stuff in relationships. I used to make excuses or end the relationship when people wanted to take things further, just because I was too nervous and scared.
I’m not sure why, I’ve just always been this way, maybe I’m scared that I don’t know what to do.
People said that I was boring to date because I just wanted to kiss but go no further.
I feel like I’ll always be this way, it sucks, maybe it’s just part of a bigger anxiety thing (I have quite big social anxiety.) 🥺

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MisterBander ·

You ain't seen nothin till your down on her muffin.

Once you get past that, the first internal squirt, then you become soul buddies and intimacy is easy. A nuzzle on the neck, a flick over a nipple, a hand down the back of her pants.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Honestly, I don’t think I could do that kind of thing. @MisterBander

MisterBander ·

@Strongtea It's all there for exploration. You need to practice it. One of life's greatest pleasures.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Hmmmmm ok, me and my girlf are nowhere near there yet, but it might happen one day. @MisterBander

MisterBander ·

@Strongtea Maybe you are not really into women? Lots of people are like this, they struggle with it for years before they figure it out.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

No, I definitely am. I know a few people have asked if I’m gay but I’m not @MisterBander