me and my boyfriend broke up today

what a great day to break up. this was my first ever valentines with a guy. well it was about to be. he was my first ever boyfriend, even though i’m 22, i was always scared to be in a relationship, but with him it felt natural.

anyway, i logged into his snapchat which i’ve had saved on my phone for ages, because i was worried about him. he messaged me saying “u hate me” and then disappeared for ages. went completely inactive. i thought it was so strange. i didn’t mean to invade his privacy and i didn’t go through any messages: i trust him and wouldn’t log into his snapchat for any other reason. i figured something bad happened because he told me that he got kicked out of his house and he’s literally always arguing with his dad. so i thought he might have been in the cells. he messaged me saying he knew i logged into his snapchat and called me a weirdo. i told him i did because i was worried. he didn’t believe me and i told him i really was worried and to just go away. he left me on open and then i said if u wanna break up just say that, he left that on opened too. so i said “i’ll take that as my answer, take care” and removed him.

for some reason i don’t feel anything

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Teslin · M

@Katiecunn12 Of course I do not know the whole story. If he was kicked out of his home, 1 red flag.
He reprimanded you when you logged in to check on him, 2nd red flag.
My thoughts. Like I said, I don’t know the whole story.

Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F

@Teslin his dad is an alcoholic, so they don’t get along. his dad would have been drinking last night, and he was drunk too. so they definitely got into a fight, hence why he was kicked out. but he wasn’t out for long, maybe half an hour before he told me he was back home, and then said “u hate me” and disappeared.

i’m not making excuses for him but i guess he felt like i invaded his privacy and maybe i did. i just hate that he called me a weirdo for being worried. it’s not like him to disappear. then leaves me on opened when i say if u wanna break up just say that. i don’t get it.

Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F

@Teslin maybe he thinks i did it because i don’t trust him but i actually did. i’ve had his snap saved into my phone for ages and this is the first time i’ve logged in. and if i didn’t trust him. i would have logged in two weeks ago, as a girl called tia who was just newly single, sent him an insta reel. and she is really pretty. so if i didn’t trust him i would have logged in then to see if they were exchanging messages.

Teslin · M

@Katiecunn12 I agree, I don't get it either? You would think he would at least comment and say he needs some time and will get back to you later.
Good luck.

Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F

@Teslin thank you