In a partnership I am the type of a woman your kind idolize but I find you all repulsive 🤢
If my partner sought out submission and dependency while talking to me initially, I would have rejected him.
I do like giving up control when in love, but I don't fall in love with control freaks.
Control freaks want the entire world to reflect their preferred dynamics. Healthy people enjoy their own choices enough not to o concern themselves with what the rest of the world likes to do with their own freedoms.
Don't be a control freak!