Anyone in a relationship where you have alot of differences?
Things that have a big impact on your happiness, how do you handle it?
22-25, F
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AceOfSpades · 36-40, M
Talk it out. Communication is the foundation of any relationship.
If something is bothering you, mention it. You both need to be in a mental space where you can bring things up, without the other being defensive or aggressive. If that happens, the relationship is already dead.
You don't have to agree with each other, but you do have to try and understand where you are both coming from.
If something is bothering you, mention it. You both need to be in a mental space where you can bring things up, without the other being defensive or aggressive. If that happens, the relationship is already dead.
You don't have to agree with each other, but you do have to try and understand where you are both coming from.
AnnaBanana00 · 22-25, F
@AceOfSpades Yeah we try but the same things come up and don’t seem to get resolved. I don’t want the relationship to end I just want to make it work.
AceOfSpades · 36-40, M
@AnnaBanana00 Then you both have to give and take to make it work. It is a team effort. If one person caves, then it adds to resentment and that's never good.
If one or both parties are unwilling to make changes, then its dead.
If one or both parties are unwilling to make changes, then its dead.