When I hear or see someone always talking about their partner/husband/wife

I wonder if they have any personality of their own, any substance without disappearing into their partners..

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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

I assume they are enmeshed and/or insecure. Probably kinda dependent. Maybe that works for some couples but it wouldn't work for me.

deathfairy ·

Yeah.. Like there are some times I can tolerate and i admire it even. But if every time I talk to them ends up about someone else, it’s like they are deflecting to even talk about their own existence. @ScreamingFox