It doesn't mean you're a loser. Quite the contrary. It's an indication it was time to move on. You're constantly growing and evolving into a more aligned version of yourself - your persona aligned with your Inner Being. When circumstances can't keep up with that growth, those circumstances fall away, giving you space to manifest things which are more in alignment with your advanced, spiritual placement.
You are NOT a loser. Don't let this conditioned belief that you're a loser keep you from finding the better life that's available to you. It's always there for you. The idea is to make yourself available to IT.
