Do women care about a man's past, just as most men are curious about their partner's past?

NB: I mean a man you are considering for serious relationship

how much does a man’s past matter to you? Could it influence whether you consider a long-term relationship with him?

Or you think its not really necessary? if so why

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

There are certainly issues regarding his past that would be of great concern and influence whether I’d consider a long-term relationship with him. For example, maybe I find out he’s a pedo, a perv, a perpetrator of domestic violence. Obviously that would be game over.

SilentObZerver · 22-25, M

@OlderSometimesWiser and those are definitely good reasons to want to know a man's past

But what if he's been a virgin his whole life till he met you or never been in any relationship prior to meeting you?

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@SilentObZerver If he’s my age I’m concerned.

If you’re talking about yourself and a woman of similar age, I don’t see it as a big deal.

SilentObZerver · 22-25, M

@OlderSometimesWiser
Asking cos i have heard some women hold the view that if a man has never dated or has no sexual experience ....its a red flag for them

So since you say if he's your age you'll be concerned it seems to tie in with that notion held by those women

So why will you be concerned and what age will it raise issues for you to be concerned?