Im about ready to jump ship
His mom never responded to him about taking his baby while he goes to work. Then again, its odd if she doesnt say anything at all. Im starting to think he never asked her. So that left me babysitting today 😒 i guess it was fine cuz she slept for most of it and he came home early. But everything was fine until that point.
He injured himself last week and his job forced him to come in, even though hes still in pain. He was very upset about it and had told me he was gonna call out for Wednesday because the pain is too much. I had been here all week with him and had already decided that i would go home later tonight, sleep in my own bed, get some fresh clothes and supplies and i would come back tomorrow. He came in the house just as i was about to step out wih the baby to get me something to eat. I had spent all morning cleaning the whole apartment ans hadnt eaten anything. Plus, he had asked me to meet him at target when he got off to buy stuff for the baby. When he got in, he offered to get us both chinese instead and i agree to it. Right before he leaves, i let him know my plans and he was okay with it....or i thought he was.
As he was leaving, he turned around and decided not to get the food. He said "Just go home now. Ill take care of everything. Its fine.' So now im confused. I thought we were gonna spend the rest of the night together, put the baby to bed and i go home. He tells me that my plan makes no sense because hes going to work tomorrow.....he didnt tell me until just then. But even so, it doesnt matter because we do this on a regular basis. I would just come after he got home. But he keeps telling me that it doesnt make sense. Because i told him i have to do laundry and stuff like that, i should stay home and do that.
Everything i planned to do would have gotten done whether or not i left now or later. I was chooising to leave later so i could spend time with him. Since he always wants me around, how could he have a fault with it? I get to telling him how the whole situation has made me feel, but i start to het irritated because the whole time im talking, hes on his phone. I point it out and he like "I cam multitask." Its not about that!! Wtf?! By the end of it, hes telling me im making the situation a big deal and projecting my emotions onto it. 🙄 "why is this conversation going on for so long, just stay then"
I-
Idk man....
He injured himself last week and his job forced him to come in, even though hes still in pain. He was very upset about it and had told me he was gonna call out for Wednesday because the pain is too much. I had been here all week with him and had already decided that i would go home later tonight, sleep in my own bed, get some fresh clothes and supplies and i would come back tomorrow. He came in the house just as i was about to step out wih the baby to get me something to eat. I had spent all morning cleaning the whole apartment ans hadnt eaten anything. Plus, he had asked me to meet him at target when he got off to buy stuff for the baby. When he got in, he offered to get us both chinese instead and i agree to it. Right before he leaves, i let him know my plans and he was okay with it....or i thought he was.
As he was leaving, he turned around and decided not to get the food. He said "Just go home now. Ill take care of everything. Its fine.' So now im confused. I thought we were gonna spend the rest of the night together, put the baby to bed and i go home. He tells me that my plan makes no sense because hes going to work tomorrow.....he didnt tell me until just then. But even so, it doesnt matter because we do this on a regular basis. I would just come after he got home. But he keeps telling me that it doesnt make sense. Because i told him i have to do laundry and stuff like that, i should stay home and do that.
Everything i planned to do would have gotten done whether or not i left now or later. I was chooising to leave later so i could spend time with him. Since he always wants me around, how could he have a fault with it? I get to telling him how the whole situation has made me feel, but i start to het irritated because the whole time im talking, hes on his phone. I point it out and he like "I cam multitask." Its not about that!! Wtf?! By the end of it, hes telling me im making the situation a big deal and projecting my emotions onto it. 🙄 "why is this conversation going on for so long, just stay then"
I-
Idk man....
