I take it this is not your baby. You don't have a connection with the kid at all? He is probably majorly stressed out too, and seeing you with one foot out the door already makes him wonder if its worth pursuing.
That person on the other end of the phone might be his lifeline if you decide to split. He will need that.
That person on the other end of the phone might be his lifeline if you decide to split. He will need that.
SillyPrincess · F
@JamesBugman No its not my baby, i dont love her any less and he wasnt talking to anyone. Just scrolling through IG. I am the lifeline. "Wonder if its worth pursuing" This is our second time starting a relationship because he cant keep it in his pants.
Trav2024 · 51-55, M
@SillyPrincess I say you should make the decision that is best for YOU. I know, you love the baby, but IMHO, every person on this dustball we share should make decisions that are the best for THEM. I have made some tough calls in the past because I was in an unhealthy situation and I realized it. Everyone says to watch out for #1? Well, if you are not happy with your circumstances, you're the only one who can change them. 🤓
@SillyPrincess Sounds like a few guys I have known, they bounce around between girls and as soon as they get pregnant he moves on. How did he end up with the baby? Is the birth mom a druggy?
All of these issues will go away as you all age, if you can keep it together that long.
All of these issues will go away as you all age, if you can keep it together that long.