I’ve been seeing this guy for like a month He initiates conversations most of the time,...

Lilred2289 · 36-40, F

Sounds like he’s not a fan of texting and is more of an in person type. That’s a trade off I wouldn’t mind in a man. I’ve been on dates where men have been glued to their phones and it’s insulting.

Anduwu · 22-25, T

Have you tried communicating with him about it? Also if you haven't done this I would recommend looking into your attachment style. It seems like you have some anxiety or insecurities about being left on read, or not being responded to in timely manor. I am not saying this to be mean. I have just been there and have been going to therapy the last few years. I have learned alot grown a whole lot and have healed quite a bit.

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

This part right here…

He initiates conversations most of the time…

is a clear indicator that he does like you. No one initiates anything for someone they don’t like.

Try not to read into the texting thing too much. If you want, you could gently bring it up in a conversation just so he knows where you’re at. But I don’t think you have anything to worry about here. He sounds like a gentleman and that’s rare these days.

GohantheThird · M

Some guys aren't huge texters, I'm not either. If he's taking you out for dates and everything else though, I'd say he's into you.

BrandNewMan · M

He's engaging regularly, paying when you're out .. loaned you money only being dating a month. Seems the interest is real in more than one way.

The man might just legit be busy making his money. Cut him some slack and don't overthink it into a bigger problem than it is.

urbancowboy · 56-60, M

Sounds like he is not for electronic Communication. Otherwise I see nothing wrong. At least he is good to you in other ways

lasergraph · 70-79, M

He may just not be able to communicate while at work. I don't, I always mute my phone while working.

SunnyViews · 36-40, M

Most likely just busy, he’s being considerate imo if he’s even reacting/acknowledging your text that’s a good thing.

eMortal · M

When he's a away from you, he's focusing on making money. When he is with you, he gives you all the attention you deserve. Text messages can be very distracting.