I wasn’t very nice to my ex girlf when we dated.

I did cheat on her amongst other things, mainly belittling her in front of our friends. I do feel bad about it now, but the way she laughs about the things that have happened to me (getting caught bullying, wetting myself when I was drunk, having no friends) really hurts.
It was a long time ago and I’m a really different person now, I’d like to be friends with her, but she’s being really horrid.
I have apologised but apparently it’s not enough.

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YoMomma ·

Well maybe you want to be friends now but she doesn't.. also you hurt her emotionally so idk if you understand that completely.. so maybe you were once bf/gf but idk if she is ready to forgive that or think you are a different person.. she may still be bitter over it especially when you are with the same girl you left her for btw did your current gf know you had a gf already when she went out with you?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yeah, I suppose I realise now what I did to her and I wish we could just be friends. My girlf did know that I was with her when we started getting together. @YoMomma

awildsheepschase

You might need to accept she will never be able to trust you. Just because you were bad when you were struggling is a not carte blanche to hurt someone. Some things are hard to be undone. Maybe she has moved on?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yes, I know that you’re right, I do wish I could change the past. @awildsheepschase

RachelLia2003 · 22-25, F

shes in the past. you aint her friend anymore

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I know, I suppose I just want to be friends again with everyone. I wasn’t a great person, but they do make it hard to forget@RachelLia2003

RachelLia2003 · 22-25, F

@Strongtea you cant be friens with everyone

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yeah, I know you’re right, some people seem to do it so well though. @RachelLia2003

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