Did you ever meet ...

A woman full of venom and hate mostly huring it at the opposite sex who then turns around and complain she doesn't know why she can't meet somebody nice?
The nice ones are running away...
And, yes, it goes the other way around...
men who bash/ mistreat women will get women who don't think much of themselves and probably don't take care of themselves very well ...
then these men complain that they can't get a woman of quality.
The women of quality are looking for good men and running in the opposite direction...

Do these people ever self-reflect?

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BillyMack · 46-50, M

I’ve seen this both in person and online. Self reflection is not something many people are good at, myself included.

There’s also an immediate reaction to put the blame on others, so it’s a big reality tbh.

Taking time to muddle through the noise is the best way, but even that isn’t easy.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@BillyMack well of course I'm not perfect and I've probably made excuses for my own behavior, but I don't understand the constant bashing of each other and then you're confused to why you don't have a relationship or people don't want to be around you

BillyMack · 46-50, M

@Justmeraeagain I hope I didn’t imply that you were saying you’re better than others. I agree with what you’re saying.

And yeah the bashing of the opposite sex is probably more out of control now, especially in a place like socials where that gets you validation. I totally agree.

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