What do you do if your partner decides they just aren't going to even try to improve your...

BillyMack · 46-50, M

It’s never easy to be in a position like that. But the whole airplane oxygen mask thing applies. Take care of yourself first. And then evaluate the next steps.

Easier said than done I know.

Docdon23 · M

Don't let him drag you down. The healthiest relationships are ones where two people take care of their issues, especially toxic ones, and bring healthy selves to the relationship, which is not to say we all don't have some issues!!!

Bleed · 41-45, F

Save yourself every time. Some people can’t be saved and it’s not your responsibility whether they’re your mum, cousin or partner. It’s not really helping if you’re just going to drown along with them.

tobynshorty · 51-55, F

You can only save yourself. Can you temporarily go back to parents? Sounds like your current situation is very bad for you

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BrandNewMan · M

If he refuses to adjust and step up, leave. Its rather unlikely to get better, at least in my experience.

HootyTheNightOwl · 41-45

There comes a point where you have to look out for number 1 - this is one of those situations.

JackDaniels · 46-50, M

Save yourself, you cant do it for him.

YoMomma ·

Not much of a partner eh 😳

urbancowboy · M

I could give you a hug to get you out of the doldrums🫂🤗

romell · 51-55, M

You can save someone's ass only if yours is safe

What do you do if your partner decides they just aren't going to even try to improve your situation?