A cheaters disrespect doesn’t start with penetration

The cheater first had to be open for communication, they had to meet them in person, annd engage in flirtatious conversation. They had to give the signal that touching is OK, then that kissing is OK. They had to engage in mutual, petting and touching, licking and sucking, and then penetration.

There are several disrespectful steps that the cheater took, before the act. This is why it’s not OK to date people that are OK with open flirtatious communication with those they are attracted to.