I don't get playing coy

If I'm into you, I want to hear from you. Like, all the time. Like, all day. If I'm into you and you are messaging me, I'm over the moon. I love attention. I won't ever ask for it, but I soak it up.

Why wouldn't anyone who was into someone else be opposed to hearing from that person and know they are thinking of them? That's wild to think they don't.

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phoenixrising · M

I wish more people felt that way. Even though I am single, it wouldn't hurt to be recognized once in awhile :)

LavidaRaq · F

Im with you, love to get messages.. why wouldn’t someone?

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@LavidaRaq ikr?!

Oh no!!! They are letting me know they are thinking of me! I hate it! 😒

Like really? No. I'm a big melty pile of goo when I get a message from someone i love when it's just a quick, "Hey! You were on my mind" ❤‍🔥

LavidaRaq · F

@FoxyQueen yeah, just a second to say hey thinking of you.. it’s just heartwarming. Rare stuff tho!

SomeIrishPerson · 31-35, M

Yeah. I don't really get it either. I can tolerate it up to a point, but eventually I become tired of playing.

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@SomeIrishPerson Same.

OscarTurtle · 61-69, M

Nothing worse than sending a message and then having to wait and see if a response is coming.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

Games are tiresome.

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JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@FoxyQueen I would greatly appreciate your candor!

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@JimboSaturn I have had a few boyfriends actually thank me for telling them how I feel and how to deal with it. Like if I'm mad, I'll tell you why and what I had expected that led to me being mad. That way, we can discuss possible resolutions, not to point out fault. My goals aren't to make anyone feel bad. My goals arw, "Hey, this is going on with me and why and you should know so we can talk about it."

Life and relationships shouldn't as hard as we make them and I just don't get why we do.