Such a dilemma

My ex wife’s uncle has been in my DM’s for a while now. I like messaging with him because he’s funny and nice. It’s gotten a little sexual at times and I like that too. He’s probably in his late 60s and a good looking manly man. He’s been divorced at least twice. Anyway, I know what he wants and I do too but I don’t know how my ex would react if we did something and she found out. We have a very good relationship and I don’t want to mess that up. I thought about letting her know I’ve been talking with him to see how she’d react. But I don’t want to out the guy either. Sigh

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helenS · 36-40, F

Like @nativespirit already said, chances are she already knows; she's his niece. And she's your ex(!)-wife; it's not up to her to be judgemental. Just go ahead and let things unfold. Good luck 🌷

Finchy · 41-45, M

@helenS Thanks hun. I don’t think any of her family has any idea about him maybe being bi

helenS · 36-40, F

@Finchy Hey it's 2025 and being bi is no longer seen (or at least, should no longer be seen) as something sick and perverted.
I'm 100% straight myself, but I know some bisexual men and I like them and the way they are.