Is it fair to carry all our burden by our partner/significant other/husband or wife. Did it hurt romance or intimacy in your relationship?

Making that one person our Best Friend, and to unload everything on him or her to carry on their shoulder, can often kill the romance/intimacy?

In olden days, men and women socialized in segrgated settings, where we each had mini trusted friends to help deal with our challanges.

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MayorOfCrushtown · M

nothing about life has ever been fair. but, when my lady comes to me with a problem, i listen, and i help when i can. and she does the same for me. and the intimacy is still great. thats what a partnership or marriage is........ being able to lean on each other.

Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

@MayorOfCrushtown I think it is great for you two. However, i dont beleive she comes to you or you go to here to talk about everything and anything you feel like, social, work, family, friends and social circles drama and politics. I hate family and friends drama/politics. People act like high schoolers with low toelrance. Becauce they are the God almighty and wont tolerate anyone accept them.

MayorOfCrushtown · M

@Fieldmaster what do you think we talk about ??

Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

@MayorOfCrushtown I don't know, shooting in the dark, what today's normal couples talk about.. kids? Work? Family issues?