Not every man can handle a woman who thinks deeply loves fearlessly and walks like she knows where she’s going

I don’t entertain confusion.
I don’t respond to half energy.
And I don’t settle for a man who’s still searching for who he is

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swirlie · 31-35

Very true what you say! That is why an emotionally impotent man who is uncertain about his own sexuality will frequently seek random sexual relationships outside his marriage to validate himself, particularly after his wife discovers 'what' she married.

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swirlie · 31-35

@peterlee
Since you addressed your unsolicited comments and biased assertions directly to me peter, was your intent to offer me unsolicited dating advice because you think I'm in need of it... or were you trying to teach me something about men and women that you presume without evidence that I don't already know? 🤔

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swirlie · 31-35

@peterlee

Treat each other as friends, who support each other, and enjoy each other, talk things through with each other.

Incidentally, women too have affairs, it takes both a man and a woman. So there are as many women having affairs as men. They are just better at covering it up. Men are more gullible. Beware of men, called ‘old friends’ who drop by for a ‘coffee’ , when you are at work, who you never meet.

Where in your quoted post above is it mentioned that you are talking about YOUR own circumstances and the relationship YOU had with your wife? 🤔

If you want to make posts that contain what I've quoted from you, then you don't address that content to someone specific like you have otherwise done. You simply post your comments as an independent post to this thread.

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swirlie · 31-35

@peterlee
What you wrote never caused me distress peterlee, it was your passive-aggressive writing style that I felt the need to call you out on because you appear to be very comfortable communicating with women using subliminal elements of passive misogyny.

The content of your quoted post is not what's in question here. What you wrote however, did raise issue with 'why' you were addressing ME with those quoted remarks of your's, particularly since none of what you had written holds any relationship to what I had previously written myself.

What you wrote in your post that I had quoted amounted to nothing more than a culmination of trailing experiences that you had learned the hard way in life which evidently resulted from your failed marriage, but you did not present any of it as a story from your OWN life.

Instead what you presented were those trailing experiences constructed in a subliminal format of unsolicited advice, offered freely to ME from some unknown guy like yourself who thinks he knows more than I do about men, women and the interrelationship of their sexual order.

Keep in mind that it is you who bears witness to a failed marriage, not me. Therefore, you are the last guy on earth who should be giving advice of any kind to anyone about men or women, nor should you be offering up your biased opinion of how each can be expected to react or interact in private social settings with each other.