Should I leave him?

This is the 5th time in a row that I’ve gone to a restaurant expecting a date with my bf and he’s just not shown up. He responds to my texts. We talk on the phone. But as soon as we have the chance to meet again for a date he just doesn’t show…what should I do? (We spend non-date time together too)

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DrWatson · 70-79, M

I think you need to confront him and ask him why.

And don't let him get himself off the hook with vague answers. Press him, saying that you need to understand what is really going on here.

" Do you not want to spend the money?"
" Do you not want our relationship to be public?"
" Do you feel pressured for some reason if we are at a restaurant?"
" Is there something you are hiding from me?"

Don't give up until he cracks!