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bert199 · 51-55, M
I’ve learned that nobody ever really changes. They may soften their rough edges, but generally people are always the same. I used to think I could fix people that I really liked that had some issues that would normally be dealbreaker. But I’ve learned it’s best just to take a pass. This goes for cheating or any other thing that one would think of has a dealbreaker in a relationship. Cheaters are best left to be honest about it and find an open relationship.