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Are you the fixer in a bad relationship?

Like is your partner an alcoholic or drug user or a abuser.

You think you can save them, set them on the right path and they will love you forever.

I used to be a fixer in the relationship with my ex's. I didn't do once or twice, but multiple times. I was a gluten for punishment.

If you see red flags, don't be like me and try to fix them. Only the willing can save themselves. Leave before they take you down with them and you have nothing left.

Praise the Lord I have found my true love and I don't have to go though this anymore.

I just wanted to share my past experiences to help others
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Perhaps. I wouldn't choose to be with someone with an addiction or abusive. But my last relationship, i always had to support him emotionally and forgive him when he was being mean. He started lying and manipulating towards the end and I got outta there.

I know I can't fix people. I don't think it's my job to change someone nor accept their mistreatment. I've been fixing myself and I kinda like being alone.
Tumbleweed · F
Yes, I've been there and the only thing I try to fix now is ME
mareeeeahh · 26-30, F
i was always saying sorry etc he was so mean & abusive 💔
HumanEarth · F
Humans are so mean and nasty to each other
mareeeeahh · 26-30, F
@HumanEarth yeah they are
SW-User
In past relationships I was ...long ago
Wiseacre · F
No, I always knew if u can’t accept them as they are, walk away.
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HootyTheNightOwl · 41-45
No, apparently I just like fixing myself after they skip out on me...
NinaTina · 31-35, F
No, I'm the curb shower

 
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