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A girl I like sent me a friend request.

Hi,
There’s this girl I’ve been seeing at the gym for a while now and long story shore - I really like her. I’m not even sure how it happened but we started greeting each other although we’ve never actually had a proper conversation.

Yesterday, she sent me a friend request on Facebook, which really surprised me because I honestly have no idea how she even knows my name or how she found me...

I found out that she works as a fitness trainer and apparently she’s already seeing someone although I’m not 100% sure about that.

So my question is – how should I take this? Should I message her or maybe talk to her the next time I see her at the gym? Or should I just see it as something purely friendly?

I’m a quite shy when it comes to talking to girls I like and I really don’t want to mess things up with her so I’d really appreciate any advice.
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joe438 · 61-69, M
Accept the request, be friendly and get to know her. You already know you both like fitness and gyms, so there's an icebreaker. As you talk you'll get to know more about mutual tastes in music, food, etc. and if that all goes well, perhaps things my become romantic but don't get ahead of yourself. Just be a friend first.