cheating is not apart of “ups & downs” in a relationship

Most women do know when a man is going to cheat. The signs are almost always there — and rarely missed. But often, women convince themselves otherwise. Why? Because they’re afraid of being alone, or because they’ve invested so much emotionally that they cling to the hope that they’re wrong.

Cheating is never really a surprise. The truth is, the relationship ended long before the betrayal. The cheating is just the obituary — not the cause of death.

People need to pay attention. The signs speak louder than we admit.