Why does she always delete her message if i dont reply fast

My guess would be that it's either insecurity or manipulation. It would annoy me tbh and I would avoid online conversations with a person like that.

Could be a ton of reasons, probably need to figure out her personality before you can answer this one.

But my initial guesses would be extremely nervous, or games.

-Her feelings changed.
-She sobered up.
-She lashed out at you, and now regrets it.
-She lashed out at you, but it's too early to act crazy so she deleted it.
-She simply just felt like deleting it cause you took to long, so whatever.

Or maybe she texted the wrong person..

The real question is, what's taking so long? 😂

Maybe fear of being ignored, not given priority.

Maybe she just had a change of heart

Embarrassment?

Why don't you ask her ..

How dare you

Because she likes drama.

Nutjob 🥜