Jealous or not?

I got accused of being "jealous" of my boyfriends fat ex. There is a difference between feeling jealous and feeling disrespected. I felt disrespected as I am his current girlfriend and I keep seeing his ex's name on his stuff (Amazon account, Microsoft), at a takeout place and today when we went to pandora. She literally plastered her name on lots of his stuff. She might as well still be coming over. It makes me feel desperate to tolerate his ex's name on his stuff around the place. I mean, she's fat with an ugly face so it puts my self esteem down. Wish she was pretty at least. Do you think calling me jealous was ok?

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

Your not jealous, not at all .
If that's the case I tell him to remove all of his ex's stuff with names .
That's a head melt cause I can see the anger that's coming up from your post.
When in relationships that are going well in most cases the devil with tempt that relationship to falter .
The whole idea of his tactics in relationships is to destroy them and make you on your own feeling worthless and doubting yourself .
Anybody that's in a relationship I stay well clear of them , only if I was great friends with them but I never get involved with relationships.
No advise , no nothing . I'm gone .
See in relationships if it's gone well especially from outside people , some can play one off the other to destroy the relationship

BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@riseofthemachine I agree. Thank you for commenting.