Am I too much?
I don't expect my partner to be perfect. I don't expect him to fulfill my every wish and demand. I do expect him to make the attempt to do what he can to make the relationship work. I myself am not looking for someone to buy me the world, honestly I wouldnt want it. I am not looking for someone that has it all together bc that is where I personally want to help him grow. I want a relationship that endures and surpasses all expectations.
Lemme explain.
A relationship should be 50/50 right?
Nope
You should give everything you have into making it work. I am not meaning he can fly me over constantly and i will continue to stay. That would be ignorant. I mean we don't walk away because things are hard ( communication and understanding) if I say something and you disagree then let's talk about it. Don't make me feel like I'm pathetic because I don't see it the way you do. I mean how can I effectively understand and communicate if you aren't willing to at least attempt to explain what I did or said wrong. I can't fix or correct myself in reference to communication if you don't tell me what you feel I did or said that was disrespectful or bothered you
I mean without really getting to know a person and really paying attention to how they speak or how they phrase things then the lines of communication wouldn't work anyway right?
He and I may have different ways to explain the same thing but at least make the attempt to try to understand.
I mean if he feels strongly about the way I explain things then teach me how to make it make sense to him.
Idk does that make sense?
XoXo
Lemme explain.
A relationship should be 50/50 right?
Nope
You should give everything you have into making it work. I am not meaning he can fly me over constantly and i will continue to stay. That would be ignorant. I mean we don't walk away because things are hard ( communication and understanding) if I say something and you disagree then let's talk about it. Don't make me feel like I'm pathetic because I don't see it the way you do. I mean how can I effectively understand and communicate if you aren't willing to at least attempt to explain what I did or said wrong. I can't fix or correct myself in reference to communication if you don't tell me what you feel I did or said that was disrespectful or bothered you
I mean without really getting to know a person and really paying attention to how they speak or how they phrase things then the lines of communication wouldn't work anyway right?
He and I may have different ways to explain the same thing but at least make the attempt to try to understand.
I mean if he feels strongly about the way I explain things then teach me how to make it make sense to him.
Idk does that make sense?
XoXo
36-40, FNew
