Thanks for the tips Dewayfarer. I may well be back for some explanation of some of them. I started this poll because I asked myself the quesiton and thought its a bit oxymoronic to say a perfect partner because I feel as we change someone who is perfect one day is not the next but so far I see there is more positivity in the world than I have. Its only 5 votes but andy six sigma waller is going to say once I've got 31 its a meaningful sample - albeit with the caveat that its of people who visit this site and this tag and paid attention to this post. So I think some of what you say is about drawing a bigger audience and I might set up the poll again using some of your hints when I have time. Haivng said that Im sure more ideas will come to me where I want to ask the audience. Sounds like you might be one of my phone a friends LOL. Best Regards. M
