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I have got to stop being civil to people who don't deserve that from me

Throughout our relationship he took and took, he let me down so much. He appealed to my kindness and got too many chances. He was jeckl and Hyde, everything I needed, sprinkled with everything I did not. Despite his emotional and increasingly physically abusive behavior towards the end, ive remained civil during the breakup. Letting him get his stuff and sort out financial stuff on his terms. I just wanted it over without fuss.

Of course, he was civil and even kind while he thought there was a chance of getting back together. But now, hurtful sentences are flying from his phone. Its earned him a block. Sometimes you can be as nice as pie, but some people are just shit. Thank you for reminding me I did the right thing, and have fun on your trip to our favorite place, I hope the memories eat you for breakfast.
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YoMomma ·
Yeah it's good to get away from nasty selfish people.. it's hard when they are nice sometimes but people deserve 100% respect and consideration not constant ongoing abusive nastiness 😤 glad you got away and sorry that happened to you. 😳 ugh
DHggmu · 31-35, M
Good people seem to attract those that take advantage of good people. It really does take strength and courage to be able to walk away.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@Kuronekko No one should have to deal with this, there are so many others out there who just don’t know how to walk away.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@DHggmu its hard, and people judge so harshly. No one gets into these things knowingly. Its a slow stripping of your power, a psychological torture that can render you helpless and brainwashed.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@Kuronekko We are fooled by initial feelings, in time when they have a hold over us we start to see a side of them we didn’t imagine was there. And it can just feel like it’s too late, because the alternative of starting over and potentially being alone is scary too.
I gave up on people

 
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