From what I learned from my life experience , don't be dependent on anyone fully that you feel your life or emotional state are dependent on them.

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Softy1 · M

You have to change that when you get married.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

Softy1 · M

@sahi81 you are to devote yourselves to each other

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Softy1 yes but i think that should come from a place of genuine respect for each other, not dependency.

Softy1 · M

@sahi81 no , you should put your spouse first before all worldly things

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Softy1 same goes to men

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Softy1 i would rather put my kids 1st than a spouse if have kids

Softy1 · M

@sahi81 well I don’t know if you are a Christian or not but you are supposed to be devoted to your spouse more.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Softy1 i am not religious. And also i am not chirstain by birth religion.

Softy1 · M

@sahi81 do it how you want it really doesn’t affect me 😜

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Softy1 do what ?