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Reverse the genders for me and I'd be asking why a man would be feeling that insecure???
Having lived with such levels of insecurity where I've had men tell me that they "don't trust me around other men" - despite the fact that I hadn't done anything to imply that I might cheat, I changed my appearance to make myself as undesirable as possible... to the point where I'm ashamed of who I am now and the whole debacle has given me low tolerance for nonsense like this because I deserve to look nice and feel "sexy" whatever that is for me without some guy who is supposed to be my best friend accusing me of potentially cheating without proof.
I'm loyal to a fault if I am secure in a relationship and I will tell my partner if something is happening that I'm not comfortable with - as I did with STBX over two men who groped me without my consent.
I refuse to change myself into this monster that I am now for anyone else anymore. I admit that I have my own issues with insecurities - so I'm not perfect... but I am better than I was and I'm still working on making myself better than I am right now. I'm still not satisfied with where I am currently at.
Having lived with such levels of insecurity where I've had men tell me that they "don't trust me around other men" - despite the fact that I hadn't done anything to imply that I might cheat, I changed my appearance to make myself as undesirable as possible... to the point where I'm ashamed of who I am now and the whole debacle has given me low tolerance for nonsense like this because I deserve to look nice and feel "sexy" whatever that is for me without some guy who is supposed to be my best friend accusing me of potentially cheating without proof.
I'm loyal to a fault if I am secure in a relationship and I will tell my partner if something is happening that I'm not comfortable with - as I did with STBX over two men who groped me without my consent.
I refuse to change myself into this monster that I am now for anyone else anymore. I admit that I have my own issues with insecurities - so I'm not perfect... but I am better than I was and I'm still working on making myself better than I am right now. I'm still not satisfied with where I am currently at.
