I am scared of ending up alone if i can't find a good partner or people in my life.

@swirlie yes. why

@swirlie that's because i don't feel safe outside to go out and socialize...

@sahi81
Were you thinking that some guy is going to come knocking on your computer screen to ask you out on a date or something?

@swirlie no

@sahi81
If you're not careful, you're going to fall into the trap of one of those 'arranged marriages' from hell!

@swirlie i am leaving india by this year september to italy or UK

@swirlie i think Italy might reduce costs

@sahi81
Are you in India right now?

@swirlie yes, i am in India

@swirlie not all arranged marriages are a trap.... why u think all are? Some are and some are not, just like love marriages. Some work and some doens't work. But divorce rate is high in love marriage because people seem to not fear and break social taboo divorce in love marriage more... love marriages are becoming common now a days. In arranged marriage, people seem to not divorce out of fear of being judged by society.

@sahi81
That's where we make our biggest mistake in life is worrying about others judging us.

@swirlie people seem to stay in unhappy/failed marriages in arranged marriage...