I feel so paranoid about men.

If 1 in 3 men i thought was good but turned out bad, I feel all men were pretending, even good ones, they will also turn out bad . It's so scary.

Idk how taking time to get to know them helps when men are very good at pretending. I am not good at identifying 😞

In my past , my male friends i been with for 1-2 years, after cutting them off due to fights, their fake kindness or their apathy, i found out they were just around me to try to use me. I found out after 6 months- 1 year of cutting them off from my life. Even men I tried to date didn't treat me good.

F everything, let them turn out bad or good if i try dating again, I'm tired of worrying .

Elisbch · M

Don't try to over analyze or over think it all. Learn to trust your intuition. We all make mistakes with it from time to time so don't be too hard on yourself. But if you get a feeling that something doesn't feel write, listen to it and don't let yourself be swayed into a potentially dangerous or unpleasant encounter or situation.