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I feel so paranoid about men.

If 1 in 3 men i thought was good but turned out bad, I feel all men were pretending, even good ones, they will also turn out bad . It's so scary.

Idk how taking time to get to know them helps when men are very good at pretending. I am not good at identifying 😞

In my past , my male friends i been with for 1-2 years, after cutting them off due to fights, their fake kindness or their apathy, i found out they were just around me to try to use me. I found out after 6 months- 1 year of cutting them off from my life. Even men I tried to date didn't treat me good.

F everything, let them turn out bad or good if i try dating again, I'm tired of worrying .

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

How can anyone trust others when no one's idea of good is the same?

Everyone's perspective is different.

And this doesn't just apply to only men!

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer some of them were good to animals but weren't good to women...

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 really? Do you really know the perspective of any animal? 🤷🏻‍♂

That's more impossible than knowing the perspective of other people.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer yes but what r u trying to convey ? sry i didn't understand

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer i think such men have supeiroity complex over women

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 no one or nothing. And that is absolute. Can have the same idea of good as the next.

In matriarchal societies it no different! And those types of societies women considered themselves superior!

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer if i was in matriarchal society, i would have lot of respect for men for serving me instead of feeling superior unless i hate men for some reason

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 there are all types of people and no two people are the same!

Good is different for each living thing.

If a lion, irregardless of gender, eats a person, does it feel good or does it feel regret? 🤷🏻‍♂

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 yet a lioness (female) with will kill a baby zebra or human!

What is good for the lioness? 🤷🏻‍♂

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer there is a difference between self-defense and offense

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 so who is good? Lioness that refuses to let her cubs starve or the human woman protecting her baby from the lioness?

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer both are good/normal but the powerful one wins.... mostly humans win

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer i hate this world, so cruel world 🥹

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 BTW it's the female lions that mostly hunt for the whole pride.

Powerful isn't necessarily good!

And that wasn't always the case even 100 years ago!

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 take a step back and change your perspective!

Life is change. That is what matters.

Change is different for everything.

Change has no good nor bad!

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer i don't like killing of cubs just for domination !

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer i want someone non-egoist

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 a non egotist would never survive.

The lioness has a tremendous ego! She believes she and her cubs WILL survive!

That is the perspective of the good lioness.

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 I repeat the lioness believes she and her cubs will survive.

And will do ANYTHING even kill to survive!

She IS egotistical!

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@sahi81 she kills for food as well as defense! There's no distinction to the lionesses!

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer so i have to find someone my type basically than good or bad?

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DeWayfarer how would a male lion die if he doesn't mate ?

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