I feel so paranoid about men.

If 1 in 3 men i thought was good but turned out bad, I feel all men were pretending, even good ones, they will also turn out bad . It's so scary.

Idk how taking time to get to know them helps when men are very good at pretending. I am not good at identifying 😞

In my past , my male friends i been with for 1-2 years, after cutting them off due to fights, their fake kindness or their apathy, i found out they were just around me to try to use me. I found out after 6 months- 1 year of cutting them off from my life. Even men I tried to date didn't treat me good.

F everything, let them turn out bad or good if i try dating again, I'm tired of worrying .