Have you ever done a mass cut off of everyone due to disrespect?
I've always hated when people say this but I get it now.
I genuinely wish to cut off a few folks in my life, family included.
To them all is well but sometimes after having them make remarks, not supporting your goals, etc, you just get tired.
I had to let one friend go this year as she wanted to " give me a taste of my own medicine, " simple because she called and I didn't want to answer the phone. Mind you this is someone who I can be on the phone with for hours, brought stuff for when i travelled, drove miles to be there for her son's first graduation and more. I sometimes just get tired and don't want to talk or answer calls. I do feel bad but it was a few out of many calls that i've taken. After that, the friendship went downhill and in my discussion with her to explain myself like a child, I just stopped talking. I firmly want to do this overall to a lot because to others I'm "too soft," even the kids agree. It is tiring. I hate being seen as the one who can't get her life together, I just want to now fix everything and be taken seriously.
I genuinely wish to cut off a few folks in my life, family included.
To them all is well but sometimes after having them make remarks, not supporting your goals, etc, you just get tired.
I had to let one friend go this year as she wanted to " give me a taste of my own medicine, " simple because she called and I didn't want to answer the phone. Mind you this is someone who I can be on the phone with for hours, brought stuff for when i travelled, drove miles to be there for her son's first graduation and more. I sometimes just get tired and don't want to talk or answer calls. I do feel bad but it was a few out of many calls that i've taken. After that, the friendship went downhill and in my discussion with her to explain myself like a child, I just stopped talking. I firmly want to do this overall to a lot because to others I'm "too soft," even the kids agree. It is tiring. I hate being seen as the one who can't get her life together, I just want to now fix everything and be taken seriously.