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I can't pay rent this month

My girlfriend is refusing to help me pay rent after I asked so nicely to help since we live together
Ans she doesn't want to listen and keeps wasting her money so now I have to pay rent in 4 days while she isn't helping


I'm really stressed out. And she's not helping or listening to my worries
Tumbleweed · F
She gotta go, love
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well does she help out in any other ways? If not well the door is there can I have my keys back please. Life is not free .
Thekillerwithrizz · 18-21, T
@updown2020 Not as much with other things no
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@Thekillerwithrizz Well then it time to show her the door . Unless you are fine with that. people do what they are allowed to get away with.
Then she can find somewhere else to live
carpediem · 61-69, M
Welcome to the big leagues rookie. You’ll figure it out.
That's not fair. I feel really bad for you .
Ynotisay · M
Living together is a partnership. Whether it's with an emotional partner or a stranger. There needs to be defined obligations, and repercussions, around issues of money. I mean, that's all marriage is. A legally binding contract. If she can't or won't contribute, and you need a roommate to help pay the rent, then she needs to leave and you need to get someone in who can. Doesn't mean the relationship is over. Just the living together part.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Just say you identify as having paid rent?
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
You're being played like a fiddle.
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
Who's name is on the rental contract? If it is yours, then you need to be responsible and pay it. Her contribution is something you need to manage, and if she doesn't want to pay, then you need to move.
Maybe she doesn't understand that part.
Hiyall1t1me · 41-45, M
goodlil666 · 51-55, M
Well time to offer her a choice, step up or step out. Carry your weight or find someone else who will. Unless you have some other type of agreed upon relationship.
CestManan · 46-50, F
any room mate situation, one is going to carry the burden and the other is going to BE the burden
Is that the entire relationship?
Thekillerwithrizz · 18-21, T
@Husher Basically sometimes yeah
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
That’s a shame. Wouldn’t let that happen to me tho..
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