What does it mean when a person you thought you cared for says I'm not your keeper?

Is it time to leave the connection if the person who you thought you'd care about and for turns around to you and says firmly I'm not your keeper? But doesn't elaborate as to why.

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hartfire

It means your partner wants you to accept responsibility for your actions, look after yourself and be financially independent.
I consider that a very good thing, since every adult should live like that. It's an aspect of emotional maturity.
I don't think anyone is ready for a committed relationship until they're capable of standing on their own.

If he or she is not your keeper, that gives you the freedom to be yourself, grow and evolve.
It's the best gift of love that any adult can give another.

CelticRose · 36-40, F

@hartfire thanks for the info and insights