Why do some women get pissed when they cause their guys jacking off? My buddy just called and...

weareacouple · 56-60, C

I don't know how much longer I can hold off my climax

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One would think a romantic partner would be delighted to see their significant other masturbating? But by the same token, many people in couples apparently never masturbate either by themselves or together as for some reason self-pleasure is considered to 'breach' the bond of marriage (or whatever you substitute for that).

DavyPNW · 56-60, M

I entered marriage with the false assumption that i had put wanking behind me.

black4white · 56-60, M

I believe many think that when this happens and it’s pictures or videos of OTHER people that is where the offense takes place… You did this thinking of a different person and not them..

MaryDreamilton · 46-50, F

I don't know anyone who gets pissed because of that.

Latenightgamer · 41-45, M

I don't understand why that would be an issue. You're not cheating, if anything you're taking care of a need and it will make you less likely to cheat.

WandererTony · 56-60, M

I dont let her know when i do that. I need to since our drives are different. But i dont want her to feel deficient. Also, due to age i am not the pleasurer i once was. Nor is she.

I dont think she would be interested to know what i did as long as it isnt another woman.

BigBulge · 41-45, M

Men masturbate for 2 reasons: because it feels really good as they mentally process their favorite erotic fantasies. And, men get fed up with having to jump through hoops and begging their partner to allow them to have sex.