I asked my boyfriend to give me space.
Edit(After being overwhelmed by emotionally intelligent responses I have decided to talk to him and forgive him. Congratulations for being smart and right🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄😂😂😂)
Yesterday I sent him a text and he ignored me only answering an hour ago. He says he needed time to himself. Here's the thing,I have no problem with that and I've told him this the last time this happened. All I asked for was that he tell me he needs space instead of just ignoring me. He said he would do that next time,he didn't. It's disrespectful,rude and a complete disregard for how I feel. He had the gaul to say he just needed time to himself and he isn't asking for much. I told him the problem was he didn't say anything at all. I'm not an unreasonable person, I have no problem granting him whatever space he desires, all I asked for once more was a notification.
This is a pattern of behaviour that I refuse to accept because I dealt with it for 12 years with an ex best friend. I got accustomed to it, accepted it. I made excuses for her but in the end it was she who opened my eyes to the injustice of her ignoring me whenever she felt like it. I blamed her depression but once she started therapy she apologized for it and made me aware that it was unfair to treat me that way. What drew me to my boyfriend was our constant communication. He was the complete opposite of my ex best friend in that regard. Now he's acting like her. It's a pattern of behavior I can't tolerate. I love him and he has a lot of positive attributes but this isn't one of them. I'm not going to break up with him but I do plan on ignoring him for the next 7 days. I muted him on the texting app we use so I won't see any messages he may send. I'm mad,hurt and offended. I want him to understand that this is unacceptable so cutting him off that long will hopefully put that point across.
We accept the love we think we deserve,I deserve better than being ignored and I damn sure won't stand for it. I am good to that man. His family and friends can attest to that. It's time to remind him that I'm not a sure thing. He worked to get me and it's time to remind him that he must work to keep me. I would be devastated if we broke up but I will heal,grow and love again. I have a strong sense of self-worth that doesn't require me to be in a relationship to maintain. My parents raised me with love,especially my father. My real name means daddy's girl. My father picked it to show my mom that he was okay with me being a girl and that he didn't need a son. My mom was hoping I was a boy. My point is the love of a father gives children confidence and self-worth that lasts them throughout their lives, that's why I'm not distraught at the idea of leaving this relationship if ever I reach my limit.
In conclusion, I hope he's miserable without me. I hope he is flooded with memes that he would want to share with me. I hope something good happens to him and I'm not there to share it with him. I hope he gets extremely horny and dreams about having sex with me only to wake up alone. I hope he learns not to do this again and just for shits and giggles I hope he gets really bad heartburn for the next week. Amen.
Yesterday I sent him a text and he ignored me only answering an hour ago. He says he needed time to himself. Here's the thing,I have no problem with that and I've told him this the last time this happened. All I asked for was that he tell me he needs space instead of just ignoring me. He said he would do that next time,he didn't. It's disrespectful,rude and a complete disregard for how I feel. He had the gaul to say he just needed time to himself and he isn't asking for much. I told him the problem was he didn't say anything at all. I'm not an unreasonable person, I have no problem granting him whatever space he desires, all I asked for once more was a notification.
This is a pattern of behaviour that I refuse to accept because I dealt with it for 12 years with an ex best friend. I got accustomed to it, accepted it. I made excuses for her but in the end it was she who opened my eyes to the injustice of her ignoring me whenever she felt like it. I blamed her depression but once she started therapy she apologized for it and made me aware that it was unfair to treat me that way. What drew me to my boyfriend was our constant communication. He was the complete opposite of my ex best friend in that regard. Now he's acting like her. It's a pattern of behavior I can't tolerate. I love him and he has a lot of positive attributes but this isn't one of them. I'm not going to break up with him but I do plan on ignoring him for the next 7 days. I muted him on the texting app we use so I won't see any messages he may send. I'm mad,hurt and offended. I want him to understand that this is unacceptable so cutting him off that long will hopefully put that point across.
We accept the love we think we deserve,I deserve better than being ignored and I damn sure won't stand for it. I am good to that man. His family and friends can attest to that. It's time to remind him that I'm not a sure thing. He worked to get me and it's time to remind him that he must work to keep me. I would be devastated if we broke up but I will heal,grow and love again. I have a strong sense of self-worth that doesn't require me to be in a relationship to maintain. My parents raised me with love,especially my father. My real name means daddy's girl. My father picked it to show my mom that he was okay with me being a girl and that he didn't need a son. My mom was hoping I was a boy. My point is the love of a father gives children confidence and self-worth that lasts them throughout their lives, that's why I'm not distraught at the idea of leaving this relationship if ever I reach my limit.
In conclusion, I hope he's miserable without me. I hope he is flooded with memes that he would want to share with me. I hope something good happens to him and I'm not there to share it with him. I hope he gets extremely horny and dreams about having sex with me only to wake up alone. I hope he learns not to do this again and just for shits and giggles I hope he gets really bad heartburn for the next week. Amen.
