Is it easy for you to say "I'm sorry?" Is it easy for you to forgive someone who has betrayed you or who has flipped the script on you?
How did/do you handle something like that?
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AnotherHe · 36-40, M
I'm an overthinker.. i feel guilt almost constantly.. so I easily apologise and easily forgive. But.... I'm struggling with the forgetting part.
Betrayal is another kind of pain. It changes you. You're not the same after. It's not the backstabbing that hurts you the most, it's when you turn around and see who's holding the knife that really get to you..
There's no other way but to ride the pain. Acknowledge it. Acknowledge the betrayal and make a decision either to stay or to leave. Some people are generous, they'd give others a 2nd chance. But i think one should not give the 3rd. You'd lose hope on people if you do. The pain shall pass. It's the sorrow after that turns your heart cold and hard that you'd like to be careful with. You just can't allow your pain changes you into the one who hurt you
Betrayal is another kind of pain. It changes you. You're not the same after. It's not the backstabbing that hurts you the most, it's when you turn around and see who's holding the knife that really get to you..
There's no other way but to ride the pain. Acknowledge it. Acknowledge the betrayal and make a decision either to stay or to leave. Some people are generous, they'd give others a 2nd chance. But i think one should not give the 3rd. You'd lose hope on people if you do. The pain shall pass. It's the sorrow after that turns your heart cold and hard that you'd like to be careful with. You just can't allow your pain changes you into the one who hurt you
