Wanna know something messed up? I am not completely attracted to women but I have been with more women than men because guys can be total dicks

You mean a guy on tender, they started with meaning small talk and start talking about sex, I am like sure why not.
But then you realise they just want sex and nothing else, not even interested in knowing your last name.

Some get rude and make it sound your the toxic bad guy for wanting to hang out without sex.