Does romance fade in a relationship?
Idk if I’m just being emotional right now because of my last couple of posts
https://similarworlds.com/events/weddings/5065653-A-situation-that-has-me-feeling-kinda-salty
And the one about changing my mind about kids 😭
But I think my bf created a monster by putting me in therapy and putting me on SSRI’s because mentally well me wants more from our relationship.
In the beginning, he was so much more romantic. He would send me flowers for no reason, write me love cards, send me recordings of him singing, and buy me sweet gifts. We still do thing like activities and stuff but I feel like we don’t have much romance anymore. At least not at the same level. I guess we are bound to get comfortable but it makes me sad.
I’ve also been thinking of all the relationships I ruined when I was younger. I had and ex who would write me poetry and songs (he was a pianist) just for me, original content 😡 I want my Fiance to make me things.
I attempt to romance my bf but tbh he doesn’t seem to be that excited? He already mentioned he has low enthusiasm so I don’t take it too personally.
I guess when I was more mentally unwell and depressed I just didn’t care that much. I didn’t need romance or even care about it. I blew off the guys who did the artsy stuff and treated him like garbage because it felt too needy at the time. Now I feel like a jerk 💀
I need to discuss with my Fiance that I need him to go back to being romantic with me because it makes me happier.
https://similarworlds.com/events/weddings/5065653-A-situation-that-has-me-feeling-kinda-salty
And the one about changing my mind about kids 😭
But I think my bf created a monster by putting me in therapy and putting me on SSRI’s because mentally well me wants more from our relationship.
In the beginning, he was so much more romantic. He would send me flowers for no reason, write me love cards, send me recordings of him singing, and buy me sweet gifts. We still do thing like activities and stuff but I feel like we don’t have much romance anymore. At least not at the same level. I guess we are bound to get comfortable but it makes me sad.
I’ve also been thinking of all the relationships I ruined when I was younger. I had and ex who would write me poetry and songs (he was a pianist) just for me, original content 😡 I want my Fiance to make me things.
I attempt to romance my bf but tbh he doesn’t seem to be that excited? He already mentioned he has low enthusiasm so I don’t take it too personally.
I guess when I was more mentally unwell and depressed I just didn’t care that much. I didn’t need romance or even care about it. I blew off the guys who did the artsy stuff and treated him like garbage because it felt too needy at the time. Now I feel like a jerk 💀
I need to discuss with my Fiance that I need him to go back to being romantic with me because it makes me happier.
