Bahai only have 95 days to get married from start of dating.
I'm not a Baha'i but for a while in San Francisco I would walk down on sundays and study their library before heading out to The San Francisco Philosophy Group. In order to read, I had to attend religious classes. It was mostly women, some attractive so it had me intrigued. But they have a very short gestation period for dating. 95 days. I've known women who have held in their farts that long while dating men because they didn't want him to hear or smell it. You can't really get to know a woman that fast. But that's about all I know of the rule, outside seeing two women go through with it. They were attractive so yeah, no doubt a easy experience for them, of course they will act all sweet in the honeymoon stage. But I also notice their husbands never went to the prayer services so I gotta wonder how deeply committed they are to all aspects of their life.
If I was in a situation where I just realized I liked a woman, and she liked me, and everyone around us blew a whistle and said the timer has started, you have 95 days to wed or break it off, I don't know what I would do. I'd be in a point of internal panic. Like, I should be evaluating her by some set of very clear pragmatic standards, and not just if I like her hair, or her face is so hot, or I like how it feels when we hold hands when we walk. It should be something deep and well thought out. Like a series of tests. Maybe have her run through a relationship obstacle course full of symbolism and eeferences to real life relationship pitfalls, like those American Ninja Warrior reality tv shows.
But I don't even know what to test her on. 95 days goes by so quick. And if she surprises you with wanting a big wedding, half of that will be spent planning for it without really getting to know her. You are picking out cakes and then remembering to ask her what her middle name is. That's tough. I'd be full of so much self doubt. Who is this woman exactly?
