Would you forgive this honestly? Please be honest.

This isnt about me but is about a friend. A friend was in love with a woman and ten years later he just found out that she cheated on him emotionally with his best friend this happened ten years ago. He asked that in order for her to gain forgiveness and continue the relationship that she confront the guy she had a affair with and his wife about what happened to make sure that the relationship doesnt continue because they are still "friends". Do you think he is wrong for feeling outrage? Do you think that he should just forgive it because it happened ten years ago? Do you think his request for her to gain forgiveness is too much?

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

Your age is 36 - 40 right .
If that was 10 years ago would your friend be about 26 - 30 when that happened .
Depending then on how long they were in the relationship before the person cheated , take off that age again . Do the maths ?
Then if your friend got cheated on at that age and if the person they cheated on was around that age.
Like from 20 - 25 is still fairly young at that age .
There's still maturing at that age so my answer would be would you forgive them .
Yes .
When I was talking to an 88 year old man on day and he asked me how I was ? I told I was demented . I was 37 then .
Do you know what the answer he said to me was ? Your only a young fella . There's f**k all wrong with you .
He changed my whole idea about forgiveness.
He was 88 and he was after living life .
And to top it off .
He was very happy

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@riseofthemachine She had multipe online affairs with multiple men the big one was his best friend.