Would you forgive this honestly? Please be honest.

This isnt about me but is about a friend. A friend was in love with a woman and ten years later he just found out that she cheated on him emotionally with his best friend this happened ten years ago. He asked that in order for her to gain forgiveness and continue the relationship that she confront the guy she had a affair with and his wife about what happened to make sure that the relationship doesnt continue because they are still "friends". Do you think he is wrong for feeling outrage? Do you think that he should just forgive it because it happened ten years ago? Do you think his request for her to gain forgiveness is too much?

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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Do you think he is wrong for feeling outrage? No, his feelings are valid.

Do you think that he should just forgive it because it happened ten years ago?
Yes.

Do you think his request for her to gain forgiveness is too much?
I think his request sounds more vengeful than it does actually act as an action to repair what they have. If it was a decade ago and over I suspect confrontation could unnecessarily damage the relationship the other guy and his partner. If he doesn't trust the other guy, then maybe that friend should no longer be in their lives if they are to continue as a couple.

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Starcrossed @Starcrossed It goes a bit deeper than. She was talking to a lot of guys more than ten and made all of them feel like they had a chance with her.