Would you forgive this honestly? Please be honest.

This isnt about me but is about a friend. A friend was in love with a woman and ten years later he just found out that she cheated on him emotionally with his best friend this happened ten years ago. He asked that in order for her to gain forgiveness and continue the relationship that she confront the guy she had a affair with and his wife about what happened to make sure that the relationship doesnt continue because they are still "friends". Do you think he is wrong for feeling outrage? Do you think that he should just forgive it because it happened ten years ago? Do you think his request for her to gain forgiveness is too much?

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Dignaga

Can the other guy possibly think he wasn't in a affair? That affairs only happen when you have sex, and that he was always just a friend all along? Wouldn't that be the basis of a awesome lawsuit against this crazy guy demanding a confrontation for a nothing event from a decade ago.

For all I know I've had ten to none near miss relationships that was emotionally felt by women, that I never knew about, because I wasn't aware I was in a relationship. If I don't register it, how am I supposed to know it is happening.

Maybe some of the guys here who think they are isolated lonely losers are serial romeos, who don't realize they've had a score of emotional affairs.

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Dignaga This is a good point but the problem is they were in a relationship together and the guy she had this emotional affair with was his best friend.

Dignaga

@bushi2020 is a emotional affair a relationship or just a friendship?

Can a straight woman have a emotional affair with a gay guy, and the gay guy not know it?

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Dignaga It was a legit a emotional affair their was intent but distance kept them from actually doing it