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SW-User
Makes sense.. as they should.
Men need to be providers.
Men need to be providers.
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SW-User
@OogieBoogie while I agree with you on that healthy relationship - the responsibility does ultimatly lie on the man imo
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@OogieBoogie tis the american way.. saying its the 21st century isn't a good argument.
Really not looking to convince you to take my opinion either... you do you..
Really not looking to convince you to take my opinion either... you do you..
OogieBoogie · F
@SW-User 😂...are you arguing that the American way is archaic and outta date ?
Geez....ur gonna cheese off even more people?😅
Seriously tho, im not here to you how to live your life either. Im just saying that people now have the freedom to live beyond these tradtions - and they do.
Your ideal, or mine - doesn't speak for everyone .
Its a brave new world, choices have opened up for people in many countries. Breadwinning isnt this gender owned role anymore .
Hell, some people are happy to be single parent families and do it all🤷♀️
Geez....ur gonna cheese off even more people?😅
Seriously tho, im not here to you how to live your life either. Im just saying that people now have the freedom to live beyond these tradtions - and they do.
Your ideal, or mine - doesn't speak for everyone .
Its a brave new world, choices have opened up for people in many countries. Breadwinning isnt this gender owned role anymore .
Hell, some people are happy to be single parent families and do it all🤷♀️

SW-User
@OogieBoogie hahh noo.. i just meant your point of view is the american way and also using the 21st century argument to imply your opinion/pov is better than mine..
A female could definitely make a lot of money and be the bread winner.. but ive seen those relationships, the women doesn't respect the man.. and ends up kicking them to the curb..
Unless its a sugar momma 😌
A female could definitely make a lot of money and be the bread winner.. but ive seen those relationships, the women doesn't respect the man.. and ends up kicking them to the curb..
Unless its a sugar momma 😌
OogieBoogie · F
@SW-User omg.....ur serious !
Its been a while since ive heard such a ... clichéd, biased, pretty misogynistic comment.
Oh Honey ..... you need to poke your head out of your box once in a while amd take a look around - the world is passing you by 😕
Its been a while since ive heard such a ... clichéd, biased, pretty misogynistic comment.
Oh Honey ..... you need to poke your head out of your box once in a while amd take a look around - the world is passing you by 😕

SW-User
@OogieBoogie idk what to tell you..
Feel free to be with someone who doesnt make any money..
That's your choice
Feel free to be with someone who doesnt make any money..
That's your choice
OogieBoogie · F
@SW-User You seem to see the world in extremes. i never told you my preference, i just mentioned the variable dynamics which can suit people these days.
That there isn't just one option.
Family dynamics especially, require someone to be be caretaker - hence they dont make any money.
It doesnt make their efforts or contributions any less valuable.
Respecting someone only for their abitly to make money is a very narrow view indeed.
And says much towards how you perhaps view such partners.😒
That there isn't just one option.
Family dynamics especially, require someone to be be caretaker - hence they dont make any money.
It doesnt make their efforts or contributions any less valuable.
Respecting someone only for their abitly to make money is a very narrow view indeed.
And says much towards how you perhaps view such partners.😒